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You know my friend you have to go with what feels right for you, after being married to one that was close to my age it didn't work out. Then this one is almost 10 years my senior and for the most part it's been a great marriage but honestly ( I need someone younger to keep up with me..lol.)
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But if I had a bunch millions $, I'd say 'Who cares', and I'd be shallow enough to say, 20 years, and even younger would be fine. But seriously 10 is a number that works. Cheers! ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I can only go younger. My last was 19 yrs younger. It depends on the person, also.
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8/12/2018 1:17 pm |
i prefer always younger............
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In general, + or - 10 yrs seems most comfortable. Exceptions are negotiable but definitely not interested in anyone whose age starts with a 2 or 3.
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i prefer women right around my age and i'm 50 !
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I would say if you are attracted to someone age does not matter
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As an older man I would love a woman 20 years younger than me for a while. yes I am still horny my wife have amazing sex but. If you are looking long term it is rare that an age difference like that works W/O an age related fetish. My 2 cents
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10 years max for me though I might have broken this rule a couple of times. ~~Anais Nin~~
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for a relationship i say no more than 10 years for me....but for a wild fuck??? age has no bearing on my decision. good personality and my type? i am going for it!
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I would consider up to 20 in a non-relationship romp, I've seen some sexy 80 plus women, but for a relationship, around my age up to 10yrs.
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The age factor only really applies IF you are seeking more than either a one night stand, or quickey, or weekend tryst. IF you want a relationship that continues outside the bedroom, you have to have more in common or mutual interests. I think that IF you asked a group of older men, none of them would say NO to a hottie of barely legal age for one night of ecstasy. ... however IF it was for a more permanent mate, I doubt that the ratio would be very high. Just my humble opinion....
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At my age does it really matter that much how much older she is? I think not. Anyway if she was 20-25 years older she might a little too far gone physically to do much safely. But I can understand if someone that much younger than me has reservations. Please don't let me be misunderstood.
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From [blog CharmingAsianCY] To be honest, 20 years of difference between you and the other is OK, so long as you and your partner are in the same rhythm and thought. Don't be shy, just go for it.
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It depends
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I would have pencilled in a 10 year limit too, but I did have a great relationship with someone who was nearer 15 years younger than me. And my parents were 14 years different so it's not really about age, it's more about your similarities and differences.
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Depends on the situation, I do prefer younger but not puppies. Having said that I wouldnt turn down Robert Deniro, Michael Douglas or Harrison Ford if they wanted a relationship (all things being equal)
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No rules on age, depends on the individual. I know women 29 years younger that are old souls at heart. And women 19 years older that are young at heart. But for marriage I will consed that the 10 year either way works best.
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I've always preferred someone much closer in age but at this age I've learned a valuable lesson that seriously questions my continuing to look and that what I think or want will have any bearing. Why question your opportunity? Just continue living the dream! Using more than all the road!
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I'll consider 10 to 15 years, either direction. What the heck, you only go around once !!!
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Not sure what to say. I've been with women who were 15 even twenty years younger. Not anything long term, but these were bright, thoughtful, knowing old souls. Thoughts from the Garden...
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8/12/2018 6:42 pm |
When I was 25 I was having casual sex with a sexy horny woman of 52. Neither of us had any issue with it. We had great fun. That said, neither of us would have engaged in a ltr with the other. I would still be comfortable with a similar arrangement.
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8/12/2018 9:01 pm |
I don't know really. I have been approached by so many fake women on here. All seem to be 19, 27 or 32. All of them. Looking for the right one. but 25 miles away is too far haha. I wonder why people will put 18 to 70 on their profile and then say i'm too old for them .Or ladies closer to my age want younger like 26 years younger. Just saying. It sucks to be an average old guy..
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I was thinking of getting out of this site, since i thought that I have become too old .Then stumbled on your posts by chance. Oh! I am feeling naughty again! Gals like you remind me of the Peter Pan in me!!!
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8/13/2018 2:46 am |
As long as he is of legal age and wants me to pleasure him, I don't look at age.
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Even for an FWB, I wouldn't go more than 10 years+/-
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8/13/2018 5:07 am |
When I was 25 I was seeing a 50 year old lady. Sure had some good times!
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I do try to stay around my own age but it doesn't always work out that way. I have had very meaningful relationships and sexual relationships with both younger and older women. The biggest age gap was 22 years. I was 42 and she was 64. It was primarily a sexual thing although we would sit on the balcony of her condo and talk for hours. As long as there is an ability to communicate and the other finds you interesting, age shouldn't be a huge issue.
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i truly believe age is a just a number. If it feels right, then go with your gut. Same thing applies if it doesn't feel right.
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8/13/2018 8:01 am |
i donpt care at all about age...i i like that girl or boy... it is ok for me ..and if he or she like me too...
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1 post 8/13/2018 8:33 am |
I too think 10 years is the most, that is what I put in a search higher or lower for something meaningful in that life's experiences are so different between decades.
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8/13/2018 11:20 am |
Shit if it is good and fulfills a void that is need now or who knows maybe he is mature enough that he is looking for same as what you are. Never know unless you try. Not trying is failure. Good Luck
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I have no qualms with dating women up to 10-12 years older or younger than myself. Although I've only gone as far as 10 years both ways.
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8/13/2018 11:34 am |
As long as we are compatible it doesn't matter to me.
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8/13/2018 11:46 am |
I've said before... its not so much the chronology as the mileage. I've know folks 50 years old that haven't been out and about much. That can be expressed as naivete or ignorance. These are the folks that I can't seem to connect to. At the same time, I've known folks that are sparse in years but have "old souls", sometimes due to travel, sometimes experience and sometimes just vivid curiosity. I've learned that the grey and wrinkles can be a good indicator but cannot be relied upon. I keep an open mind until I get to know more about that person. As a result, I have more than a few wonderful friends that are half my age. Keep an open mind. there are wonderful people out there.
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8/13/2018 12:23 pm |
I like older more experienced and passionate
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8/13/2018 1:00 pm |
i prefer old mature women ain't nothing wrong with that...
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8/13/2018 1:49 pm |
If it works, it works. Age is a number not a sentence
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I stay within 20 years limit
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personally-after fucking I wouldn't want to have to try to make conversation with a chick over 5yrs younger than me----I cant relate
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What difference does it really make? If both sides are happy and can handle the age difference, who cares.
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8/13/2018 9:42 pm |
It depends on their maturity level but usually stay within my age range.
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im one who has had both older and younger, i prefer a woman who is between 5 to 7 years older than myself. im 58 and an older woman to me is at the age where she is either lonely or in need of and wanting some attention. the younger gals are also great but much wilder. ya just got to love all.[post 4129307 i enjoy giving sexual pleasure to a woman,i am always hungy for the taste of a woman's pussy! ,
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8/13/2018 11:22 pm |
age really dus matter, i did have a relation with someone 10y younger and its great in some ways, but if you want to go all the way, my experience says dont go higher or lower then 5 years,....good luck with it
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8/14/2018 2:27 am |
Anything more than 10 years and there is a sort of generation gap between each other that can be difficult to handle long term.
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it depends what you're looking for. if you want a long term relationship stick to the 10 year rule, if you are just looking for some fun try the older man. He will know tricks and techniques the younger guys just won't know and he will show an appreciation for your gift of your body younger guys can't understand.
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we are 20 yrs apart and she has a hard time keeping up with me . Age is a state of mind ( for some ) . there are so many things that we enjoy together besides the hot sex but we guess some people are just shallow
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8/14/2018 6:44 am |
I will eat or fuck any pussy and with Tgirls I will suck and fuck them.
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I voted for 10 years, but here's what I know, some people, both men and women are both emotionally and many times physically older or younger than their chronological ages! If one stays healthy and fit its more likely that they can perform at levels more like someone much younger! I for one, being well within the decade range of your age feel my stamina and fitness level have me physically acting more like a teen, yet my emotional and mental state is much more experienced and mature!
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Age is just a number. Go for it.
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8/14/2018 11:41 am |
It is just a number
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8/14/2018 12:50 pm |
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It depends, do you want just sex or a serious relationship? Sex is good at any age: when I was young the best sex I had was with an older woman and now, that I am reaching the middle ages, I enjoy it with younger ladies (not too young) and ladies around my age. But the relationships I had were all around the same age as me, give or take it it a few years. These included great or at least not that bad sex as well, with the exception of a 10 year older partner that preferred psychoanalysis to sex. On the other hand, I still have a very good and non-sexual friendship with a lady I tutored when she was at school and I was earning some money as a student. She is 17 years younger than me, married now to another guy, has three kids and a PhD in medicine. I think I helped her to start her career (and get better notes in math and chemistry) but wasn't interested in her on a sexual level at that time. Would have been nice at that time, but I would have lost my job as a tutor.
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I have been with someone 38 years younger than me and it was good but I usually stick to 15 years. I've never been with anyone more than a couple years older than me.
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I go 30 to 60 range
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For just fucking I have no age difference limit depending on the situation and as long as she's legal age and mentally competent. I've personally fucked 15+ years older and younger than me. For a relationship it depends on maturity - with that being said I'd most likely stick within 10 years of my age with a slight preference for older.
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I used to think 10 years younger was the most I could handle... but since I hit 55 (and lost an awesome same age partner) I’ve had to take age difference out of the equation or spend my time alone. After much frustration I noticed that in the real world I relate better and have more life interests in common with much younger women than I do with women anywhere near my age. Considering younger is almost inevitable, since as we older folks decrease in numbers, there’s less chance of finding compatibility with someone around our own age.
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8/14/2018 7:35 pm |
I find that when u meet someone and u r attracted to them age should not matter get to know the person.
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8/14/2018 8:00 pm |
When it comes to a sexual relationship, if it feels good do it. Age is a number as we have been told, but if there is an attraction, what the heck, go for it.
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I always liked them younger but now have kinda gotten to where it doesnt matter as long as theres attraction. And oh yea with a hot smooth shaven pussy post4129307
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Getting to the age where can only go younger, but age is just a number. There are people who are older who can be as much fun as younger and still perform as well as younger
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8/14/2018 11:42 pm |
I adore older men. 20 years would have been fine when I was younger, but at my age now, it suddenly seems too much. Will stick with a maximum 10 yr age gap methinks.
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do what you feel is right. feel like there's a connection? Your comment has been denied due to the following reason: Banned Topics (hate/weapons/under age)
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I'd expand the gap to 15 years,but lots of parameters come to play here Cheers my lady - P
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8/15/2018 3:14 am |
I picked the best answer for me which is 10 years, but reality it is more a feel thing, does the young woman in question remind me of my mother? or my daughters? If the answer is no, the actual number means less. Of course, this is all theoretical, I am not what women in my area are looking for so what my interests are of no consequence. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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Age is just a number to me, all that matters is that there is attraction between us both.
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8/15/2018 6:31 am |
If the attraction is there and there are mutual interests, why not? Does not mean you have to make it a long term situation.
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But really other than age it depends on the person. and chemistry...and if you are both attracted to each other
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My ex wife was the same age and she had ZERO sex drive. Just make a baby and then that's it. No more sex, no kisses, no affection, no love at all. And nothing in common. Just a mail order bride who used me for a green card and citizenship. My ex gf is 14 years younger and not only did we both enjoy sex with each other, but we had a ton of things in common. Always laughing and having fun together. We used to have sex several times a night for hours and then whoever woke up first the next day would start making love to the other to wake them up. Its really nice waking up to your gf giving you a blowjob or riding you cowgirl style So for me, I prefer younger. I have dated women 20 years younger and that seems to be a little too much, unless you are just in it for sex and not a relationship. But in the 20 years younger range, they seem to not have much experience and tend to just lay flat on their back and not move much during sex. Either they are shy or just not experienced or didn't want to try moving around. I also went out on a date with a woman who is 15 years older than me. Her body was still in great shape from exercise, but she was a long time smoker who gave up smoking. Her mouth and tongue were ravaged from the years of smoking so I was not enjoying the kissing at all. Its a shame because I do enjoy kissing. Her sex drive was high, but she got tired after only 10 minutes of sex, so that too was a turn off for me. I guess the magic number for me is between 2 to 14 years younger. But who knows what the future holds. Maybe I will meet a girl my age or a little older and find some happiness there too?
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We met on here, We are 18 years apart and it makes absolutely no difference. Do not pass on some one just because they are not exactly what you think that you are looking for. So many people pass up some of the best friends and lovers because of that.
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Age can become an issue. However, if you like the person & develop a real connection then what does age really matter. LIVE IN THE NOW!
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both my wives were 10+ my junior. i loved it to me age makes no different
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8/16/2018 5:01 am |
If there is attraction and compatibility, Do what feels good.
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8/16/2018 2:19 pm |
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I say 10 yrs ,luv to meet you an show you how a woman needs to be treated
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8/16/2018 7:47 pm |
Oops.. relationship or just sex? For the relationship, any kind or relationship, grey and wrinkles might be a preference but I keep an open mind. I'm often rewarded by the company of much younger women. For the "just sex" stuff? I set my dial to 50. I can adjust a bit but I find 50 to be the sweet spot. I find more confidence, ability, flexibility and fun there.
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I love older women but also would not have a problem going down 20 years.
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Sensuality doesn't age but it does mature....
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8/17/2018 2:40 am |
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8/17/2018 6:58 am |
number meen shit
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8/17/2018 7:14 am |
Older the better for sure
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Hi, Have followed your blogs for a couple of years and enjoy most topics! The answer here is going to be based on each individual. If you're a match, you're a match, no matter the age difference. Having said that, I would personally feel weird about having sex with someone my daughter's age (31 yrs difference). Every relationship will have hurdles to clear, no matter age. It all depends how hard we have to work at it. My wife and I have been married 35 years and it has been everything but easy. There is 5 years difference in our age. One day, after a fight, she got mad and packed her bags. I pulled the coil wire on her ride, so she grabbed a bag and took off on foot. The kids and I drove out to pick her up, after I cooled off and we got through it. In the years following there have been a few times I have wished that I had let her go that day! And I'm sure she has felt the same. LOL Is that normal? I don't know. I guess the whole point is we kept the family together and hopefully didn't screw the kids up along the way. Relationships have so much give and take...the attitude has to change from me to we. Sorry for the ramble! Once I got started I couldn't quit!
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We really enjoy those closer to our age but at 78, the field is pretty limited. Consequently, we have lowered our age requirement to 55 and that works for hotwife playing. Interestingly, we get many offers from those in their mid 20s to 80.
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I was told by an old friend of mine who has since departed us that the rule of thumb is.....half your age plus seven. Maybe that's for men to keep from looking like lecherous, old, perverts.
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For me 10 years either way is a good starting point, but not a deal breaker. It would definitely depend on the person and the connection
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8/17/2018 3:21 pm |
I prefer younger... and since I'm in my early 40s, I guess I need to check the 20+ year choice!
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Pienso que para una relacion o para un "aqui te pillo" no tiene que ver nada la edad, el sexo es entre dos o mas personas y solo hay que estar de acuerdo todos los participen
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8/17/2018 8:05 pm |
My parents have successfully maintained 20 years apart now for 35 years in marriage. I say fuck it ride the wave!
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I say go younger 20 years. What is that but a number. As for going up, 1 is 1 too much.
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8/18/2018 2:03 am |
who cares on the age, its if you connect in that way ....
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8/18/2018 4:35 am |
age is just a number, but id love to meet an over 50 lady
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For me it depends on what I'm looking for. Friends can be most any age although I am finding that I don't have much in common with people more than 30 years younger than me. However, I would not pass an opportunity for a short term fling with a thirty something woman. If I was looking for my next spouse I would be looking for someone at least within 15 years. But then "rules" are made to be broken
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Just a few years difference. Not my business what others want. Not a cougar. Never was and nothing to prove by trying younger. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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It really depends on what your goal is. For a meaningful relationship that might become permanent, 10 yrs younger or older would be MY limit. If a regular FWB, then 15 yrs younger, and maybe 10 years older I think would be my limit. If just an occaisional FB, then 20 years younger would be my limit for sure. And if fo a one nite stand, OR at a party, then basically as long as they are 21 and can prove it, then all is fair. But to be sure, I could not keep up with anyone more than 20 years younger on a regular basis, and if a relationship is the goal, you need to be closer in age so you have something besides funn in common. My current FWB is 5 years younger, and I have trouble keeping up with her at times.
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Who's to say that if there was only a five or ten year difference it would lead anywhere? At this point you made contact with someone who you consider nice enough to mention which by extension means there was a matching level of communication. If you think he's nice, you get along and communicate on a comfortable level, why not continue to get to know him better? That doesn't take a commitment to sex or a relationship and you may gain something from knowing someone who is simply nice. Isn't that the prerequisite of the former anyway?
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8/19/2018 7:23 am |
10 years delta on the younger side is my max. I have found that women over 48-50 and up to 70 have found their comfortable place and I have to say that I have not found anybody too old for me as long as they have stayed in shape.
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8/19/2018 2:56 pm |
I can imagine a more mature lady enjoying a your man with a nice rock hard cock to ride and stamina for her to enjoy several rounds. If you really liked the note and decided to meet the older gentleman just for lunch or coffee letting him know ahead of time your note really interested in older guys. But it would really make his day for a good date and make even a good night kiss.
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8/19/2018 3:16 pm |
If you're just in it for fun, what difference does age make? If you're in it to make a family, that's different.
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I will go up to 15 years younger or maybe 5 or so years older. Older than that and I find I don't tend to have many common interests. I tend to prefer younger men for some reason.
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8/19/2018 9:55 pm |
I enjoy older women.
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It's really up to you! If you are both on the same page then go for it but it seems you are unsure and maybe uncomfortable about it already! Go with your heart!
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8/20/2018 1:38 pm |
Age is a number. I usually go for the good sex and relationship not a number
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I can agree on one thing and that I is all in the eyes of the lioness. If she want passionate, sensual,romantic, love making she will go with the older gentlemen that can accommodate her.On the other hand if she looking for wild inhibit sex, then that younger stud will suit her needs better.Age to most women in today world look beyond the number and see what that person represent. Allot of men in their 60 and 70 are in better shape then some of their younger studs. Can't judge an gentlemen by the number on his profile. Ladies to each it own , so do what ever your heart or desires need?[image[post4129307]
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8/20/2018 9:26 pm |
The older I get the more I understand exactly what your saying. At 63 going 20 years up is not a good thing. Now, that being said, I;ve found that as much as I enjoy viewing the young women....I feel more of a connection with someone at least 45. That's almost a twenty year difference. But, I tend to see women that are in their 50's the most.
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8/21/2018 12:37 am |
Yeah what the hell I mean I love older women!
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Age doesn’t mean much do what works
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Funny how perspective changes. When I was younger, women up to 15 and even 20 years older than me really were attractive to me, and they seemed to enjoy my company. Even when I was 40, a particular 60 yo woman was hot stuff. Now it's the other way around. Younger women keep me thinking young, despite what my body parts might tell me.
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i guess it all depends on the wavelengths.....if u fine tuned...then age doesnt matter at alll....but i guess it should be friendly relationship rather than physical one....
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the woman has to be older did try younger but it never worked out so far.
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The Person That Can SEX Love Pleasure Gives You The Most SEXUAL SEX ORGASMS Should Be Your Greatest Lover Regardless Of Age !!!! Your FWB Makes You A Whore Where Your Age Difference Means Nothing As To A Whore Nothing But Money Counts !!!!
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8/23/2018 6:00 am |
Female here...My hubby is 7 years older than me...Married almost 30 years....I always dated older boys, except one, who was 1 year younger. If I had to do it over....My next one would be my age or younger. lol I do enjoy the younger men, especially if you can find one on the same maturity level.
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What I look for is his or her physical appearance, imagination, and health.
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We just have one life..
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well i'm 43 , but poeple think i am in the 30 when i ask what that they think of m'y age and some that don't want to offend me feel like they might say i'm in late 20 . so to me age wont matter . but more look and personnality
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follow your heart avoid clichés
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I think its less about age and more about human connections. I've once heard it said that if you take half of the older person's age then add 7 years, THAT is the youngest age the older person should seek. Its about experiential similarities. By this formula, and in the OPs case, a 74 year old man could acceptably seek someone as young as 42. Its all according to personal tastes. I've been with a girl who is about half my age and it was amazing for both of us.
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8/30/2018 9:35 pm |
Depends on the person, some people show every year and yet some people seem to never really age.
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9/2/2018 11:55 am |
What ever makes you feel good.
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9/6/2018 6:08 am |
The last FWB was 20yrs younger than me. Dam she was a freak.....
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I've gone 21 years younger. I no longer go older. Times have changed!
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Does age really matter ( above legal age just to be clear) if your having fun, older can sometimes mean more fun.
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I have spread the numbers around. A few were older by 5 years or more. Most were younger - in their early mid twenties were the youngest. More often they were in their 30's - 40's.
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9/17/2018 4:01 pm |
I've always fancied an older lass for some fun but I understand if 27 is too young for some people
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9/17/2018 7:06 pm |
usually 10 years but theres special cases
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Yes if you are happy and bring good things no matter the age yes the relationship itself>>!
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9/20/2018 4:26 pm |
i would say 10 years are ok.
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9/20/2018 5:44 pm |
Whatever works for the people involved.
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There is no hard and fast rule. Everyone should be judged on their own merits. Age isn't really a barrier.
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