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KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
4/2/2016 9:57 pm

I don't actually think secrets go away if there are no people holding judgement over our heads. Sometimes secrets are fun things to hold within our hearts,
No one is in the rest room,
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LemonSqueezy7116 52F
452 posts
4/2/2016 10:44 pm

I think it's self-judgment that creates those secrets. Because we feel that others will judge. It starts with our own feelings and acceptance.

Bottle is green and there's no one in the rest room ...


39lawless 58F
6864 posts
4/3/2016 5:04 am

Once I've worked through those "secrets" I no longer fear the judgement, and am able to move them from being "secrets" to being just another part of me, a piece that I am comfortable with sharing.....


That line really resonates for me - that's how it works for me. If I accept that part of me, it takes away all the power from other people's judgments. And that makes for a far happier life!

thanks for sharing!

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Keep your promises
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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/3/2016 8:21 am

Revealing a secret can be like lifting a weight off of one's shoulder.

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Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
4/3/2016 9:05 am

Great post I was going to do something similar to this one..but seein'g show you have done it I don't have to..

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
4/3/2016 11:36 am

Secrets can be healthy as well as unhealthy for those carrying the secret.
There was no bottle nor restroom!


NaughtyInSO 113F
9755 posts
4/3/2016 8:31 pm

Unless we judge ourselves, it doesn't matter what others think.

Bottle is green and there's no one in the restroom.

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rm_Lalaylala 106F
136 posts
4/4/2016 12:13 am

In general, secrets make trouble, so I don't like them...only a good mystery movie

"Give a man a goal worth living for and he can survive in any situation."
J. Goethe


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/4/2016 5:06 pm

The beer's in a can...and it's the only thing in the can.

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LiveLifeDoU 69F  
2199 posts
4/10/2016 8:45 pm

As a few here have said, sometimes it's best to keep the secrets to yourself if revealing them would only result in pain for others. We must all come to terms with our past, accept it for what it is, know we cannot change it and try to move on. We are, after all, all human...we make mistakes. We fall prey to our feelings and searching out ways to alleviate pain and loneliness. It's my feeling that because I am truly sorry for some of the things I have done, eventually if I can forgive myself, all is ok. The only person who was truly hurt was myself. Take care. You are a good person. I can tell by your thoughts presented here in your blogs. Don't be too hard on yourself.


humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
5/2/2016 6:05 am

This is a fine meditation on secrets and their use, and I thank you...

but WHY is the beer Heineken, and what does the floppy hat have to do with it?

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