Married for 20 years, wife, nice life, fabulous ren and to the outside world we are a model family. However, while some of that may be true, my relationship with my wife is purely platonic. We are friends - there is no intimacy or passion - there are no feelings of being wanted, needed or desired. This leaves a gap in my life. To fill that gap, I am looking for someone in a similar situation who can meet as regularly as real lives allow. I love to laugh, so you need to have a sense of humour. I am educated and articulate, so holding a decent conversation is not beyond me - an advantage as I'm one of those who believes that arousal starts between the ears, not between the sheets. I'm 5' 7" and average build. I exercise regularly (I swim). I dress reaably casual but scrub up quite well.

My Ideal Person I'm not looking for a one off thing, but a relationship (just not THE relationship - I already have one of those, if that makes any sense). We can meet as often as suits both our lives, as this is about adding to life, not undermining what we already have.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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