You know, I have tried the nice guy route. I even set my self up as a bad boy. Its all bullshit. So, here I am. Take me as I am. I'm in my mid 60s, recently widowed, and now I am looking for something I can't define. I don't want a new family. I've discovered a polyamorous lifestyle. What I am looking for are friends I can spend some time with and maybe more. I am not a bar type per, which leaves that option out. I am not above a nice glass of wine, but I prefer to be sober for any good ladies. So here's the deal. I don't want a fair weather friend. I want a friend that I can say, hey lets catch a bite and see what happens. Are you that lady? Well, then quit being wishy washy and leave me a message.

My Ideal Person I like a bit more substance to my woman. I am not into twiggy frames. Extra curvy is my goal. So if you look in the mirror and say, yeah like this is gonna happen, don't be surprised if I say "oh YEAH". Oh, if you are younger than 45, you may find yourself in the trash bin. I am in my mid 60s for crying out loud. I have experience. Looking for somewhere between 50 and 65, prefer not too tall. You also can't be the jealous type. Expect me to respond to your desires and the desires of other friends. You have to like just relaxing for the evening with an intimate setting or a dark theater. A walk in the park is kinda fun too. Up for a road trip? Be prepared to hold hands though. I would like to find someone that wants to explore their submissive side, or is already there. This is not a requirement, just a desire. I am open to anything. You have to like cuddling no matter where and be ready for some real pda out there. Not looking for a hookup either. Wanting friendship that leads to other things but I am not going there unless you are special. Also, if we meet and you decide I am just not what your looking for, don't wuss out on me...just tell me. I have been ghosted one too many times to put up with bullshit. I don't have a fragile ego to bruise

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Credence Clearwater Revival, Alan Jackson, Reba

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving oral sex, Anal Sex, Spanking, Thresomes, bondage, blindfolds, role playing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attration, Willingness to freely discuss andtry
anythi

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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