The clue is in the title, Sub not Slave Looking for females, female couples or groups. Would consider a female/male couple but the male would have to be very sub/slave. Looking for someone who will use a sub male for their own pleasure, I expect pain/mental/humiliation and degradation during sessions. Someone who is cruel rather than sadistic. The ideal Domme will explore my kinks with me, I will consider almost anything, but we will talk about it beforehand, feel free to make suggestions. The same with limits, mine are variable depending on the session, we will explore these together. I am no cry baby and you might be surprised how far you can push me. Trust is very important, if I am going to let you strip me off, dress me up, tie me down and me I need to know I can trust you. We will establish this through chatting and some meetings. Sessions will ideally be 2 or 3 times a month by mutual agreement. The more experienced you are the better, however I am willing to go with an inexperienced Domme and we can learn together. Your age and looks are unimportant, intelligence and attitude are more important. If you require me to perform any sexual acts you only have to order it, I am there for your pleasure. Once I walk through the door I am yours completely and when I leave our lives will continue separately. I have no interest in your personal circumstances and mine will remain private. I believe that the best way to establish a relationship is to communicate with each other and be open. There is no point in me saying that I will be your 24/7 slave without limits when we both know I don't mean it. So if you are articulate and intelligent with a good imagination and actually live within about 50 miles of my postcode then please contact me with your expectations. In view of the above please be realistic. I would expect to move to a first safe meeting in a public location within around a month. To get to know each other and see how we get on. I expect us to test each other a little in this time. This may not sound very submissive but outside of the sessions I am a normal guy. I will submit completely to the right person so that we both get what/need/enjoy.. The more you are willing to use me the better it will be for both of us and I want both of us to enter this with eyes wide open. So if your looking for a sub get in touch. Any questions? just get in touch.

My Ideal Person Someone who wants the same as me.